What if you could trade lives with a stranger for 24 hours?
Clothes, identification, cell phone, houses, partners, jobs, family and secrets?
What would you discover about them? About yourself?
While I was having my morning coffee, I was reading an article in the New York Post about a heterosexual, 28-year-old Italian artist that traded lives for 24 hours to be gay and Greek.
It made me think about how it would work in all our communities to discover how we could help one another.
What would someone feel after being me for 24 hours? Would they feel tortured? Bored? Happy? Sad?
How would I feel after being them? Would I appreciate my life more?
Would they enjoy Chanel being demanding all day for cookies? Would they think my time online excessive? Would they enjoy showing houses to strangers? Being an extrovert?
Why are we all so different if we are all connected at soul level?
Are we really that different?
Would YOU spend a day in Someone else's shoes?

Lizette Fitzpatrick - Baby Boomer Real Estate Relocation Specialist with Prudential Don Foster in Richmond, Kentucky.
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One day.... maybe if I could pick the person. I think it would be someone famous that performs. A gal like Madonna or Gwen Stefani - I've always been fascinated by what its got to feel like being on stage and having that many people adore and just go insane over your every breath.
Wouldn't want it but for one day!! Maybe only a couple of hours. Oh maybe be Oprah that could be cool too I think.
Than I step back into my shoes very willingly. Did I mention I LOVE the pink hair!!!!! Hope all is well.
Hi Lizette--For just a moment, I thought about trading two teenaged boys, an old dog and one husband buried under a foot of snow for Chanel and cookie begging in KY. Hmmm....No arguing and teen angst, No snow....Nope! I love my crazy life. Love the post as it really makes you stop an think for a minute about what is really important to you.
Dez - OMG!!!!! I hadn't even thought about Madonna or Oprah! I would absolutely flip out if I could be one of them for 24 hours. I LOVE my
pinkhair(now green for Christmas) too!!! Things are good(or at least calm)...Thanks!Teri- Come on and swap with me! You know Chanel would love pestering you all day! Hey...there's no snow down here. You wouldn't have to rake the roof!
I have always tried to see life from anothers perspective, but I'm not really sure I would survive in someone else's shoes. But nonetheless, it is always prudent to try to understand what makes someone do the things they do, think the way they think and act the way they act. It may not be in line with the way I/we/you were raised, but it is the life outline that has formed that person.
Having worked in some pretty aggressive occupations in my life, if I couldn't think like someone else I may well have been dead long ago. Our lives are complex - the relationships, the influences, successes, failures, do-overs, fears, beliefs. It's always best not to judge too quickly - to remove emotion from our thinking for just a minute - and to try to understand the driving force behind another person's actions and words.
Great post, Lizette. Thanks for providing a great source for stirring the mind on a rainy Sunday morning.
PS - you can send Chanel up here. We buy 'cookies' in 10 pound bags. LOL
Kay - Some days I feel like that too! Especially after showing 25 houses.
Carol - I can sure understand that! It's interesting when we meet new poeple how we have to mirror them. To see inside them to discover what kind of home they would be comfortable in. We had the rain yesterday...all day. Chanel would be right up there if you had that many cookies! She has gone crazy over the ones I baked for her the other night.
Lizette,
You ar eright on, at this time of year there are many more who believe that we should do this in order to really know one another....I say do it and maybe, just maybe everyone will keep it going all year round.
I am not so sure I want to be me some days....LOL....have a great day.
Our neighbor's grass is not always greener.
Even though I think I am happy in my shoes most of the time, I think it would be interesting to see that even those who seem completely happy and who seem to have all the answers all the time and especially not being a foreigner for one business day (9-5) would be interesting. I would probably learn a lot.
Or even living somebody's life who has more difficulties, struggles, and who still feels grateful, optimistic and who makes time for his family and friends, someone who makes time for his spiritual life, and says Thank You at the end of the day, would be a great learning experience.
We take so many things for granted ...
But something more realistic would be to adopt a dog for one week and see if I am really ready to have a dog again.
Dan- I don't always want to me me some days either! Well...most of the time I do want to be me.
Rich - There's no telling how bad Paris could mess up your life in one day. She might be late for every appointment.
Julie - Thanks for stopping by! This post has me thinking...I really do like the idea of trading with Madonna.
Nestor- I think a dog on loan for a week might be easier than trading lives for 24 hours. Make sure it isn't a puppy. They take lots of time and all night too.
Carole- You are sooo right! Being YOU is perfect. Maybe I'll just trade with you.
Are we really that different? At soul level, I would say no. On the surface, certainly. While we are all unique in many ways, most of us have similar core values and needs. From the comments above it sounds like we are all happy to be US. Me included!
Hi Lizette,
Very good post and a very interesting question. I like who I am and I like were I am in my life so I would not want to trade. But I do think it would be an interesting experience to trade with someone less fortunate than ourselves, just to see, feel and realize how hard some people really do have it. I bet our lives would be really great when we came back to them!!
Connie - I'm so glad we aren't all alike! That would take all the mystery out of finding out about someone.
Sarah - That would be a pretty good swap. Count me IN!
Joan - Wouldn't that be a blast to be Oprah all day! She must have quite a life!
Sally - I could see you enjoying her life for 24 hours. I bet she would love being in Hawaii for a bit.
Trace- (Love that name!)I would say that after living a life in their shoes for awhile we would so appreciate what we have more.
Lizette, My first thought would to be someone like a famous ice skater or singer, but the thought came to me that if I spent a day in the shoes of someone who could not afford shoes or that had to walk a mile for drinking water, I would be forever joyful and jubilant about all my blessings big and small!
Ginger